Tether- By Tamu Browne (A mother who mothers)

What happens when the bond between a mother and child becomes a lifelong obligation? In Tether, Tamu Browne offers a compelling examination of Caribbean motherhood, exploring the emotional expectations, sacrifices and generational patterns that shape relationships between mothers and their adult children. It is a reflection on love, identity, caregiving and the invisible ties that can be difficult to break.

Tamu browne

Saint Kitts & Nevis

To tether – to tie, to attach, to fasten, to restrict movement.

I describe the unnatural attachment of Caribbean mothers to their children, an attachment that persists into adulthood, where the physical umbilical cord is swapped for the psychological hold. It is a mental model, for the most part, that I opine has been molded by socio-cultural norms steeped in a perverse belief by us – Caribbean mothers, that our motherhood identity never shifts, regardless of the age of our “child”.

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